Hello, my boyfriend, and they can be women, I find it really funny when most guys running towards me and accused me of an asexual relationship with a spouse, as if I were a suggestion box, or maybe I have a magic wand I use 'll, to convince these ladies return to their channel requirements.
On the other hand, I wonder if these guys have really sat down and wondered why you really want a woman thinking about sex in a relationship, to deny his man, when sex, if done well is an act to beenjoyed by two consenting adults, but looking back in hindsight and with myself as a case study, because I just had my share of sexual conquest, have (if that's what I would call), I'll want to understand why and how to be successful with women, because other people think, hard, hard on their fate.
Sit back, when I close out list of 21 reasons why the ladies to meet and decide to deny the discharge channel of your desires.
• Cleanliness is half of life: this is rather aUnfortunately for most guys. Guys, bad breath, body odor, smell my feet smell of armpits and bumps on the back of the head, etc. have to be considered as a scarecrow by the ladies and as such should be avoided at all costs, so that you can win every woman, especially those who know what they want from their husbands, must be clean. I recently met a man who asked why he was thrown out by his wife, was this nice, fresh and worked three jobs to getbills paid, but with all this struggle and hard work, was not as an adaptation to the bed of his grace, beautiful woman, on closer inspection, I noticed that the guy above is a complete bastard, his boxers dirty hidden under their mattress, and this lady, who happens to share the apartment owner. The bad thing about the whole thing was this guy who never washed his clothes genital warts, which are passed, had this beautiful woman, this anger, anddecided that enough is enough, and got his ass kicked out of his apartment dirty, pathetic, but deserved, (with apologies to my kids), so you guys get a clue from this and to get to personal hygiene an acceptable level.
• Be bold and ask: "To ask and you shall receive": This is done to reason number two, after doing my research, I came to discover that most of the people, refusing sex with their wives complain, in practice they never asked sense. In a conventional worldAnd 'improper for a lady to make claims of sex against the man, but man it should. But most of these guys or "crying babies" who go to collect complaints about the denial of sex, not the courage to claim rights over what is perceived as rightfully theirs. If you lack the courage or the will is there to ask, then do not blame the woman and said that they refuse sex, think twice.
• No money, no action: everything we think a male is always the monetization of life,Sometimes we think the monetization of our relationship? Conversely, if you have any of the above categories, as a guy who does not know that for you to win the heart of this woman and so you need some 'money to do it, yes, we do not need deep pockets, the Most of the times, but all the time, before you consider a woman to accept your request.
• It seems a good guy, or you can look wherever you want: This is especially true for those people who do not have very hard to believelooks good guys, the pot-belly, balding, growth disorders (sorry shorties) and more: but even so we still have to improve your appearance and get the ladies wet your pants for you, this is true, as I am a white boy, my friend could actually their physical appearance than that of any relationship with the chimps had to describe life in the deep forests of the Amazon jungle. But to know this guy, its inadequacy strain to improve its appearance, took the exercises that have used some "look-good "routine, read from books and so many things I can not listed here. well, before you can spell look, this guy has been a hot topic for the ladies, to bear a very heavy and so hard, he could refuse sex endeavor are very young, improving your appearance, stop bad habits that lead to drinking with pot bellies, sufficient water to improve the appearance of your skin, the time to exercise and stay fit, especially.
• Does the drug can notYou can Junkie: Hello, my boy, you do drugs? Well, if the answer is yes, then you need to start cleaning your actions or to deny sex to get all the time, because people hate real ladies do drugs. Drug addiction is a very unpleasant, and many times I've seen it not only destroys relationships, but also destroyed the houses. Many times women complain of marital rape, violence and battery, as a result of drug addiction of a man and woman in the race for theSave the pride and moves out of the room or out of your life. In the first case, means moving out of the room, no sex. This is one more reason you need to know to get rid of addiction. You must register to talk about rehabilitation, a psychologist, stick to your routine recovery, and when you return, talk to some heart to heart with his soul and repair work for their trust and hopes to win again.
• Oh, the smell of alcohol, other than me can not stand hanging in the morning: One wild nightout with the boys will always result to getting drunk dude, and when you get drunk you have a breath reeling of alcohol which many ladies really can't stand. I remember when I was having some drinking problems, though it was not addiction, I had issues with my girl friend of then. She was constantly complaining of my new found habit (which to me was not a habit), she told me without mincing words, that if I do not get to do something about this new found love for the bottle, then she'll have no option but to employ harder measures, and by harder measures you know what I mean. So this made me get up and walk this habit off that was almost ruining the beautiful thing we shared.
• Whoa! You are so small. I don't think you can satisfy me: Well ladies this is a poser to you all. Does size matters? I recently asked a female friend this same question, and her response was that size meant every thing. So for this reason, many women can cite this as an excuse to refuse you of sex. The female psychology about sex is that for there to be some sort of participation, then the penetration has got to be deep and satisfactory, which a less endowed guy can achieve. But other than that, I think the issue of size should not be an excuse for any lady to deny her partner of sex. I asked a gynecologist this question, and she explained to me that the female anatomy is built in the way to accommodate any size be it small or jumbo sized manhood, and also the outer most part of the female reproductive organ (the clitoris) is where sexual satisfaction is most felt; so this is good news for those guys that are less endowed. But aside this, you need to work on the psyche of your lady before and during sex, get her in the act through fore-play, talk sexy and ensure you get her in the mood, as I assure you when you both get to cloud nine, the issue of size will matter less, believe me.
• Hey you Talk much; my Secret is not Save with you: So many ladies will love a suave young man, but a lousy one is out of range for them. Ladies hate men who talk too much the "kiss-and-tell kinda guy, as they see you as the type who will give a vivid description and detail of every thing you do with them in bed. To so many ladies, this is very embarrassing and unacceptable. Ask Brittney Spears, Paris Hilton and maybe Kim Kardashian; they'll tell you more. So when a lady spots this trait in you, she will rather save herself the embarrassment and heart ache that will follow by doing what she deems right, which is totally refusing you SEX!
• You are not my class, Get Lost Dude: The issue of class will always come to play; many ladies will love to have a puffy Jay-z (no offense meant Miss Beyonce Knoles or is it Mrs Jay-Z), than a broke ass prince charming with no good education and no cash. This is why most celebrity relationship are more on a contractual arrangement, one you will regard as a union of convenience rather than love. Ladies love intelligent and rich men, one they'll be proud to go out on open dates with, frolic on the beach wearing bikini and so on; this does not mean that as a lower class guy, you do not stand the chance of winning a lady of class no; all you need to do is to step up your game player, if you are not so schooled, see how you can improve your self, in the area of finance, work harder, there's nothing that weakens a lady and makes her let down her guards as a hardworking, good-looking and intelligent young man. This is why you see a common employer marrying the boss's daughter, a case that comes to mind is the marriage between the daughter of the 9th richest man (according to Forbes magazine) Mr. Mittal giving away his daughter to a young man I consider his employer. This young man could only achieve this by being real and walking the walk.
• I saw you stealing a glance at my best friend: this you could consider as the flimsiest of excuses most ladies employ to refuse their man of sex, but I have seen this happen over and over again. Most ladies knowing you have it hots for their friend will rather keep their legs tight, than have you take both her and her friend; this issue is out for debating, and I will love to hear what the ladies have to say about this.
• Oh those Menstrual cramps are up Again: another flimsy excuse ladies use to refuse you sex, a lady did this to me I can authoritatively reveal to you my fellow gents their tactics is placing a sanitary pad, just to pretend that they have their monthly cycle running, but my guy, you need to further investigate your self, know her regular cycle, count the days her flows starts and stops, understand her body, or she will use this method to refuse you sex for as long as I can remember, trust me.
• Work, work and more Work: most guys dating career ladies are a victim of this unfortunate situation, where their work comes in between you and them. Many guys have been refused sex continuously in the bid to respect her and her work. The ploy here is that she comes back from work, and you are at home cooking the meals and washing the dishes, the moment she comes home, she hugs you, gives you a light peck, and heads to the shower, and then to bed. When you join her, she complains of having a very busy schedule at work, she tells you of her company's plan to increase turn over and how she was made the head person to supervise this I know how you feel. But all you need do is either quit this relationship, or work out some thing with her through sustained dialogue, let her know you have needs and so does she, for the lucky guys, she could understand, but for the unfortunate ones she might decide to quit the relationship to concentrate more on her career. Which ever make sure you brace yourself up for the worst.
• Look baby boy you are not romantic, you'll bore me in there: Believe me a young woman told me this recently, she was so sure of this theory that she cited examples which I wont want to use for privacy concerns. There's this myth that if you want to know the guy who is good in bed, then you have to measure how romantic he is. There's this believe going round in lady circles that a less romantic guy will be a bore in bed; and this is one experience a lady won't want to encounter, a man who is a bore in bed. So going by this assertion (that if this is true) it is up to up your romantic instincts a little higher than is originally is. Take her out more on dates, remind her of important dates like her birthday; just be more romantic, and with time she'll get to loosen up, you can trust me on this, I know it works.
• Oh no! I am still a virgin; I'll keep it till my wedding night: many ladies will always refuse their men sex on the arrangement that you'll consummate this love on your wedding night. This is a very good idea, if she can keep to her own part of the bargain, but in most cases she's just plain using you. May be she's only interested in what your pockets hold, and other than that, you are just any cheap ass player she can fool around with.
• Your Job kinda Scares me: those guys working as morgue attendants can attest to this fact. Most ladies could refuse you sex based on the kind of career you pursue, especially if every thing about you is shady sort of, you are more of a stranger to her; remember a lady can only allow you access to her body when she feels some sense of safety. But if she's a little scared, she won't want to give you that priced possession.
• My religion frowns at premarital Sex, so I can't do it: Many relationships have packed up as a result of this, recently, I met a lady who belonged to one of those religious sects that preached end time and the kind of destruction that will befall mankind in the coming ages, I am not a religious or pious person; but I still go to church where I practice my Christian faith. I brought up the issue of sex with this lady, she gave me a look that suggested that I was asking her of some thing grave and immoral. This is not funny if you ask me. I will advise every guy to respect his lady's religious beliefs, but if it does not conforms with the realities of the moment and what you as a person believe, then I'll advise you to look else where, or more so get converted to this faith, and wait for eternity to get the taste of the pudding.
• I wonder why he still talks of his Ex, I can't yield to him: many guys fail to realize this and go on talking of their past relationships, relegating the future they should be talking about to the background, another big reason she refuses you sex. This is so because when you are busy talking about your ex, you are introducing competition which is not really needed at that time. It makes her feel threatened. She has this feeling that you still cared for this ex, and in due time you'll going back to her (which is most times the case), so she will want to save herself for some other person who will respect her as a woman, treat her like a queen, make her an idol, your fetish, make her believe that your world revolved around her. So if you are being refused sex, see if you are in the habit of talking about an ex, an ex that left you, an ex that treated you as you where some cheap piece of furniture; then forget about this ex, and think and talk more of how both of you can improve on what you already have, discuss your future plans, get to know more of each other, instead of having some idle ex talk. Do this and she won't have any reason to refuse of what you so desire. Try me, it works.
• It looks like I'm older than Him: Oh my! This is another reason why she might be refusing you sex, though most ladies can marry men younger than them, but majority of ladies prefer men older than them, in some cases old enough to be their fathers. This is so because a lady believes that she needs some level of protection which a guy far older that her can do, but with the younger guy, she feels less protected, especially if the guy in question looks like one of his junior bothers, she probably baby sit a couple of years back. Many ladies will want to argue this out with me, for example in the recent past, pop star and song diva Madonna has dated Guy and now Jesus, guys who are younger than her. We also have the case of Cameron Diaz and her ex squeeze Justin Timber lake, and of Usher and his ex, but all this relationships packed up as a result of this age incompatibility; I believe.
• He is a Player, a Casanova: though as a Casanova you'll always have a way with ladies, but not with every lady, so if she thinks you are a Casanova, and judging from the fact that she's had her fair share of heart breaks, she wont want to give you her body, because a woman sees sex differently from the way we guys see it. A lady sees it that having sex with you means that she has shared with you the most vital part of her; the woman sees sex as some thing spiritual and should be savored as such. But to a Casanova, sex is another major conquest of the female specie. So if you are a Casanova or perceived so, many ladies will refuse you sex, as they are not ready to sacrifice their most priced possession in the altar of bodily satisfaction, period!
• You are still Childish, as you still rely on your mum: Oh you still live with your mum player? Well this s another major reason why she refuses you sex, most women hate it when you always makes reference to your mum in every conversation you have with them. This is a weakness of some sort, and no lady will want to hang out with a baby-man. So if you fall in this category, this is time to grow up, if you still live with your mum, and you are old enough to have your own apartment, then it is time to strike it out on your own, if you still depend on your mum as in picking your bills, then this is the time to get up and be the man she wants. Was you grow up, she will have no option than to loosen up those strings as she wholly gives herself to you.
• I don't want him to know I'm Frigid, as I don't want to lose him: many women you wont believe me hate sex. There see sex as a tool for procreation, and not an act to be enjoyed. Many men are yet to realize this. These women want to keep you, and in any case gets you to marry them. But if you find out about this psychological problem, there are chances that you will walk out of the relationship, and this is one disappointment they can't live with. In order to avoid this, they continue to refuse you of sex, and when you finally do they will feign orgasm, moan, and wriggle falsely and so on just to simulate enjoyment. But if you are as savvy as I am, you can detect this when you are in the act, and if you love her: I wont suggest breaking up, I will advise you both see a sex counselor, that will help you both learn how to enjoy sex, and live together happily ever after, as it is in fairy tales.
These are the 21 common reasons women refuse you sex, you can feel free to add your own.
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